I work as a CNA at a nursing home. While you get used to death, some residents are difficult to let go of. It's common for the family to distance themselves once they know their grandparents are safe. We become best friends, daughters and siblings. We become family, and while we may not have years of memories behind us, we can love them just as fiercely. I'm glad that Catherine's family recognized your affection for their Mother and I'm sorry for your loss.